Adam
When I came to the Ranch, I was very lost in my beliefs and I had crushed my relationship with my parents to what I thought was the point of no return and my family started to crumble as a whole… This was until I realized it was possible to make the changes needed to create a new reformed relationship with my family and that I was given a second chance for what I though I had forever destroyed.
At first, it was very hard to accept that I was at the Ranch and your child being at the Ranch will most likely be the most difficult task your child will ever face, but change is never easy, it will always take work, and that’s what Resolution Ranch Academy taught me. I apologized to my parents for everything in the past and they forgave me, I changed my attitude and character from what was a negative and dangerous evil soul into a person of joy, peace, love, kindness, and just a much healthier and kind-hearted person, developing into the man I needed to be.
The staff are very nice, and I have seen them do a great job at attempting to help these kids, because it was easy. It was becoming very difficult to deal with the kids so always keep that in mind to stay focused on yourself and the changes you need to make. The school is very great and I actually finished in a very fast period of time which I never thought was possible… a high school graduate at 17.
Being at the Ranch was the hardest thing that I ever had to do in my life, and I am a firm believer that it will continue to be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but if you dedicate all you have within yourself to the process, the change is inevitable. And for the parents, this will 100% without a doubt be the hardest decision that you will possibly ever have to make, so if you’re not 10,000% sold on it and you have the slightest bit of doubt, don’t proceed in sending tour child to the Ranch, but however, if you realize that there are no options left for saving your child and his future, then the choice is to be made.
I learned a lot of things like respect, setting goals, routine building, consistency, and having a loving soul, learning to care for and love each and every soul at this place, but nothing comes close to the 2 main lessons I leanred: 1. Trust God Always 2: Always be the individual who works the hardest out of anybody in the room, because life is a game of toughness and hard-work.
I was at the Ranch for 5.5 months, and I have now been back home for a bit over 2 months, and my entire life has changed and transformed before everyone elses eyes, as well as mine. I have never been doing so good in my life after the lessons I learned that I had stated above. I hate that this had to be the decision, but it was the only decision that could save me, and I can never thank the Ranch enough for the transformation they had the privilege to distill in me. God Bless!